February 2012

 

A smile on your face or a free groat!

The bins fly south tonight!

True Blood series 4 – where do we stand????

Hah! You wait 2 years for a newsletter and then 2 come along at once! Hello. AGAIN!  Listen my amigos, I’ll explain. I just thought I’d try to communicate on a more regular basis, maybe in smaller pieces. Would that work? I’ve even been – yes! – investigating ‘the twitters.’ (My sister Caitriona’s husband Sean’s friend Paul was approached by his father who slapped his hand on his shoulder in a meaningful manner and looked him right in the eye and said, “Son. What can you tell me about the googles?”) So now all technology stuff is described by me in such a fashion. Mind you, it’s no joke, I’m a total luddite, I’m not even on Facebook (or the Facebooks), I still don’t really get it. It seems like so much hard work and even though Anne Marie explains to me ENDLESSLY that actually it involves less work and that you get to see photos and stay in touch, I still don’t get it. But yes. The Twitters! And then I could tweet about what I’m watching on telly, which is pretty much all I do. In fact, most days I’d tweet, “God, Ashley Banjo’s mother must be so proud of him.” Because that’s exactly what I say every single evening when I watch Got To Dance Auditions Uncut. I look at him and he’s so beautiful and perfectly formed and intelligent and creative and articulate and seems like such a nice, nice boy. (If you have evidence that he isn’t, I BEG of you, I IMPLORE you, don’t tell me, I’m too fragile, I need to believe in nice, good, decent things.) (Apologies to those of you outside the Britain / Ireland region who don’t get this).

So anyway,  I just thought that with the world being in such a parlous way, I’d list some

                nice things to cheer us all up

Let’s start with The Muppets Movie. It’s adorable and such fun and I hadn’t realised but it’s got Amy Adams in it. I LOVE Amy Adams. And there’s a fair bit of singing like there was in Enchanted.  Go. All age groups will love.

Jean Byrne, the weather forecaster. Let me explain. Every evening on RTE, at the end of the news, so it’s just before 7 o’clock, the weather comes on. Unlike in other countries, the people who do the weather on Irish telly really are meteorologists, not just glam types reading an autocue, so Jean Byrne is a real person, who knows about isobars and cold fronts and whatnot.  And because of that I’m fairly sure she doesn’t have a stylist or a dress allowance, so it’s TOTALLY her own look. And it’s AMAZING. Sort of Weather-Goth. Sometimes she wears a white pleather sheath which zips all the way up the front. And other times a see-through black top (but with a fine stout vest underneath.) And she’s got this ring that’s the size of a hot air balloon and all spiky and like a medieval weapon. But the best thing of all is the slashed black dress. You MUST see the slashed black dress. (I’m going to try and do a link to her. Or else google ‘Jean Byrne that dress.’) And the thing is you don’t get her every night, sometimes you get Evelyn or John. But the excitement when we get Jean! If I’m out of the room, Himself yelps, “Quick! Come quick, it’s Jean.” And I come haring into the room and we sit on the edge of the couch and say, “What’s she wearing tonight?” Jean Byrne is one of the reasons I love living in Ireland. I keep telling Ljiljana, (do you remember, Ljiljana is my sis-in-law, I told you the last time that she’s recently moved to Ireland from Prague) that by living in Ireland, she’s living in ‘an earthly paradise.’ Poor Ljiljana, I’m not sure she’s entirely convinced. (I’ll explain the ‘earthly paradise’ thing. I read an article in some newspaper about North Korea and some poor native was quoted as saying that she lived ‘in an earthly paradise’, which is a fairly inaccurate description of the place I’d say, especially having read Nothing To Envy, a non-fiction book about life in North Korea, which I can’t recommend highly enough.)
  
Right, what else is good. Well, lambs, obviously, and for those of us in the northern hemisphere, they’re starting to appear. Also daffodils. And 11-year-old nieces. Do you have any? If not, could you borrow one? They’re fantastic. I’ve only the one, the wondrous Ema, but she’s a howl.

Tom Dunne (another reason that Ireland is an earthly paradise). I realise I’m veering dangerously close to sounding like a Tom Dunne window-licker, but he said hello to me (on the radio, not in real life, I would DIE from awe if I ever met him in real life) and played a SPECIAL SONG for me on his show about Wednesday nights being our ‘special’ night, which indeed it is, because it’s the night we both get our bins collected, as we live in the same neck of the woods. It caused a sensation amongst my friends and family! A veritable SENSATION, I tell you. It began with Malcolm ringing me and saying, “I don’t know what’s going on, but Tom Dunne is sending you coded messages on his show!” And continued from there. A torrent of jealousy from other Tom Dunne window-lickers (formerly my friends) was directed my way, but I didn’t care.


Earth, Wind and Fire. Yes, the group from the 70s. Oh, go ahead, have a good laugh at me and my taste, but when you’ve finished mocking me, try listening to Boogie Wonderland, or September and if it doesn’t bring about some uplift in your spirits, I will pay you a groat (I’ll try and sort it out with PayPal but like I said I’m not great with technology so bear with me.) One of my very few gripes about Got To Dance is the utter lack of imagination in the music choices. Every ‘fierce’ girl crew play that Beyonce song, the one about running the world and amigos, I could WEEP when there is so much amazing music that they COULD be dancing to, but no, Beyonce and more Beyonce and yet more Beyonce is what we get. (I’m not saying I don’t like Beyonce, my feelings for Beyonce are in fact extremely labyrinthine and complicated and intricate and this isn’t the place for me to explore them. All I’m saying is that I’ve heard that song TOO often and there are other very good songs which have NOT been give a fair crack of the whip.) Right, that’s it! I’m going to list 10 great dancey songs that are NOT by Beyonce. In no particular order.

I Wish/ Stevie Wonder

Groove is in the Heart/ DeeLight (my most favourite song EVAH)

My Lovin’ You’re never going to get it/En Vogue

Tightrope/Janelle Monae (god, she’s AMAZING. What an artist! Mesmerising. Myself and Himself had tickets to go to her last year but we were defeated by ‘the fucking snow.’ Which had started as, ‘Ah, look at the lovely snow.” Then when it didn’t stop it became, “I dunno about this snow…” Then when cars started going into skids outside our front door and buses were abandoned and the passengers had to get off only to promptly slip and break their hips, mutated into “This fucking snow! This fucking snow! Will it ever fucking stop!”)   

Disco Inferno/ The Tramps

Fairplay/ Soul II Soul

He’s the Greatest Dancer/ Sister Sledge (containing surely the best verse EVER written, ‘He wears the finest clothes, the best designers heaven knows, oooh, from his head down to his toes. Halston, Gucci, Fiorucci, he looks like a still, that man is dressed to kill.’ Pure poetry, no? Recently read the Nile Rogers auto-bio, FAScinating. I always enjoy a ‘my-drink-and-drugs-hell’ read.) I should also add that this is nephew Oscar’s ‘song’ because when he was about 6 months old I played it to him and it was like a bolt of electricity went through him. I swear to you, the look in his eyes! He KNEW it. He KNEW it, he loved it, in his head he was groooooooovin’. He would have danced his legs off if only he’d been able to stand.   

Get Up Off That Thing/ James Brown

You Should Be Dancing/ the Bee Gees (please don’t mock me…)

Car Wash/ Rose Royce

Respect/Aretha Franklin

Off The Wall/Michael Jackson

Forget you/ Cee Lo Green (and this where an 11-year-old niece comes in VERY handy. Together the 2 of you have to sing in the highest falsetto you can manage, ‘I pity the FOOOO-HOOOOOL who falls in love with you.’ Keep singing it, until you shatter a wine glass, then give yourself 2 squares of chocolate.)

Apart from Cee Lo Green and Janelle Monae I acknowledge I’m somewhat old school. Also I think there might be a few more than 10 songs. But give them a try and like I said, a groat will be yours if a smile isn’t put on your face.

Finally, Himself climbed Ben Nevis, the highest mountain in Scotland, Ireland, England, Wales and tons of other places. Fair play. FAIREST play. Congratulations to him.

Right, I’m off! But I’ll be back soon. At least I’ll try. Can I just ask your thoughts on True Blood, series 4. Himself said to me the other night, “True Blood, series 4, are we in or out?” I don’t know… God, it used to be so brilliant. Series 1 was so exceptionally exciting and sexy and glorious. But even by series 2, I was starting to think it was ridiculous. (Except for the whole storyline about Jason Stackhouse joining the holy-rollers, LOVED that. Do you know he’s actually Australian in real life?) Series 3, God don’t talk to me, fecking werewolves and kings of Mississippi and no end of silliness, but still… I have a great deal of affection for Sookie and Bill. I MIGHT, is all I can say. Also, you can’t fault True Blood for a lack of ridey men. Erik the Viking I could take or leave but I particularly liked that one in series 3, tall bloke, Joe something. I’ve had to google it. Joe Manganiello, who reminds me of a young Himself.   

I’m NOT doing season 2 of Boardwalk Empire. I just didn’t care enough even though I really like your man whose name momentarily escapes me. Ah, you know the one I mean, he was in Fargo. Feck it, I’ll have to google him. Is is Willem Dafoe? No, it’s not. It’s Steve Buscemi. Why did I think Willem Dafoe, they’re NOTHING like each other. Oh, I could go on all day. But I’m really going now and I’ll be in touch very soon. Thank you, as always

Lots and lots of love

Marian xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx



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You just made my day!! I'm youtubing your song choices now to do my marking to and it's making the whole boring process far easier :-)
I can't comment on True Blood I'm afraid, but if it's anything like "Lost" then give in now before you waste your entire life (that was the advice i took from my step dad and I was grateful!)
It's really really great to hear from you twice, especially in these grim winter months, you are a ray of sunshine.
I'm still over excited about the Helen book and have told my boss who is also a massive fan (brownie points for me, thanks you!!!!!!!!!)
Lotsa love Ad xx

Posted by Ad on 16/02/2012

Marian, I can confirm that Ashley Banjo IS indeed a lovely boy, I have a friend who knows him and the rest of the Diversity chaps - they are all lovely !

Posted by cathy1409 on 16/02/2012

Marian so fantastic to hear from you again - you always make me smile. Just watched your baking videos - fantastic. I will be having a go at the buttercream icing - look delicious! love all the cookie cutters - I want a beetle car one! Looking forward to your next installment. Take care xxx

Posted by silverbeetle on 16/02/2012

Wowza Marian, your newsletters are just such a treat. I'm so so happy that you're well enough to write them again. Please know that you make so many people happy with your books and newsletters, it was really awful not having you around for so long. Hope you keep getting better, and I've already put my pre-order in for your baking book :) Hope it doesn't take too long to reach South Africa!

Posted by Silvergato on 16/02/2012

If you are looking for movies to watch, Despicable Me, The Smurfs and Tangled are the en vogue movies with my almost 3 year old boy. So funny! As for the facebooks and twitters, my dad was like you with the facebooks and now he doesnt know what he did before facebooks! Give it a go, if you dont like it, at least you tried. xxx

Posted by lindy0304 on 16/02/2012

So fab to hear from you again so soon. Just to say that I think you would so love "the twitters' - it's great when watching TV and commenting on stuff to know there are like minded people thinking just the same as you! I think it's a bit like gossiping at the water cooler in an office - but a virtual one! And it's so immediate too. Please pursue True Blood Season 4 if only for the gorgeous Eric - without giving anything away - this season his acting skills are awesome! Loving all the baking tips - I always use brown sugar with my cupcakes - just gives them the edge. Looking forward to reading your new book. Take care. xxx

Posted by skwatts on 16/02/2012

Great to see you back Marian! Your books and newsletters always bring a smile to my face and it's fantastic to see you are feeling a little better!

Got the new book already (I love Amazon!) and it's wonderful... I put on half a stone just looking at the pictures, but lost it again laughing at your asides in the recipes! I'm looking forward to trying out a few of them!

Take care, and all the best, Andy x

Posted by andrewEssex45uk on 16/02/2012

Marian, "The Twitters" is all sorts of fun! Short communication, but you can also see what people like Coldplay, the cast of Glee, Ricky Gervais, Kylie Minogue etc think as well!!

I'm intrigued to know if you are into Homeland - that's my new obsession this year, it is incredible! I've also been indulging in my Mary Louise Parker obsession with Weeds DVDs - watching gangsters fall in love with the Prius because it makes for an effective "drive by" vehicle is hysterical!!

Posted by Beckala on 16/02/2012

Hi marian, so glad to have you back!I am so glad you are feeling better too!Really enjoyed the newsletters. Think you look fab as usual! Don't be worrying about the gym, you'll get back into it, when your're ready.I enjoy your books so much, the love affair began in 1999, on my way to my graduation in Wales.Travelling all the way from Donegal it made the journey so much easier. I was hoping to go to your last signing, but i was bridesmaid on the same day! I did give it some thought though.Can't wait for the new book, love the walsh family!! Know i am not really commenting on the newsletter. Just wanted to say hi & take care xxx ali

Posted by Ali B on 16/02/2012

Ok Marian, it's soooo good to have you back in our lives again - I'm sure we can weather this recession better now that you're at the helm. By the way, I fell in love with yer man from 'Homeland' when he was in 'Life' and 'Band of Brothers' (was letting on to the hubbie that I was observing WWII military tactics for research purposes - as my employer seem to use them). So I am so looking forward to 'Homeland', got a drool bowl at the ready. Also heard 'Arclight' by 'The Fat Lady Sings' recently after many years. So worth youtubing - it'll move you to tears (good tears) because the lyrics describe how amazing you and all of us are!

Posted by rmalin on 16/02/2012

I love my tellybox you cant get me away from it. I didnt watch True blood though, I couldnt get over Jason Stackhouse actually been Vinnie from 'Home and away'. I couldnt take him seriously so it was doomed from the start. I think you should tweet, and get facebook. I love your song list. I always choose Boogie wonderland to dance too on Just Dance 3. I dont mind how many newsletters you do, you could do one a day and I'd be happy (not sure you would be though). :D xx

Posted by Jennie on 16/02/2012

Ah so wonderful to get another newsletter so soon....have finally got myself organised and found my password so I can make a comment to simply say how relieved I was to see you come into my inbox and see you're doing ok. Seriously I thought of your often over last 2 yrs and wondered how you wre going. Even tried to get friends in Irelsand to give me some news! of how you were faring! Anyhow.. fab to have you back online... I read 'One Day' on your advice last year and loved it! HAve you watched 'Weeds' at all... I reckon you'd like it. Ok... that's all from me. Altough do have to say went to your Jean Byrne link... watched her weather report adn you're right she's stunnig and the dress is fab but I couldn't take my eyes off the bloody weather... how freexing is it over there!!!! Goodness... we;re in the middle of summer over here in Australis and I'm complaining about it falling below 24degreed! Rug up!! xxx

Posted by SonyaW on 16/02/2012

You are back hurrah !! xx

Posted by angi on 16/02/2012

Dear Marian.......greetings from Australia. Great to hear from you.....Earth Wind and Fire, the first album I bought with my own money ( aged 14 )....the drugged out guy at the record bar told me they were white guys who happen to sound black...At 14, don't ask me why but I was suitably impressed....he probably told me they were Australian too. Well my Brother Kim laughed so hard when I actually showed him the record cover .... Gullible Fi....
Anyway REVENGE is the new mini series showing here in OZ....I love the fashion and the fact that everyone is so rich (and miserable)...misery is such a social equalizer. Herad something at my OA meeting.
" you cannot think yourself into good living, you have to live yourself into good thinking "........so far so good.
Can't wait til March....if you feel like writing more than one newsletter a month... as it is such a joy to read ( actually I can hear your voice when I read your writing.
Lots of love,
Fi

Posted by fiamma on 16/02/2012

Oh Marian, I'm so happy to receive this newsletter...it means you're feeling better. I think of you often and wonder how you are....I'm addicted to your FANTASTIC writing. You truly are a genious! Your observational skills are extraordinary! I'm so happy for you that you're finding happiness in your life.x0x0

Posted by jennygoldsmith on 16/02/2012

Oh Marian I have missed you! Your newsletters are just like my own brain being able to formulate its thoughts onto paper. As for True Blood... well, I fell in love with the books and had to stop watching once it started making Eric mean. ( I love him too much to watch that). However, I am ADDICTED to saying "Beeeall" and "Sookeh" in suitable southern style voices. It's AWESOME to have you back, AWESOME I tell you. Much love, Emma x

Posted by Tiggerlou on 16/02/2012

We're spoiled rotten now - 2 newsletters in a row!!!!!
I'm watching True Blood Season 4 alright - I hear what you're saying about it getting a bit stupid what with the fairies and everything but I'm after investing too much into the series to give up now so I’m persevering!

Posted by emercarley on 16/02/2012

Ahhh it's so nice that you're back! Cheered me right up. Feels like hearing from an old friend, which is sorely needed since i have emmigrated far away from all my mates! Thanks Xxx

Posted by Cbyrne on 16/02/2012

Marian, it's soooo good to read your newsletters again, you've made my day.
Now, you may not know much about "the twitters" yet, but let me tell you that you've lit the place up with your last newsletter and this one! So if you do decide to take the leap, you can expect a very warm welcome!

Posted by AislingCahill on 16/02/2012

So good to have you back, we missed you! Keep it coming

Posted by Scamp on 16/02/2012

Soooooooooo good to hear from you again. I think there are thousands of women out there who think of you as a very good friend who they've missed greatly. My day is better already!!!

Posted by zeezee on 16/02/2012

oh my god woman, oh how I have missed you, and no I dont watch true blood, but try and borrow a 5 year old neice and 4 year old nephew, then you can swap from being your favourite disney princess (belle or Rapunzel in tangled) to catwoman.....against batman and batgirl, hours of fun, xxxxxxx

Posted by ss0151 on 16/02/2012

delighted!!! to hear from you not once but twice!!!

Posted by maryslj on 16/02/2012

Ah marian, it's always so great to hear from you. I've been pretty sick the last 2 days and this post made me spit my tea out laughing for the first time in days! Thank you! Can't wait for the new book. xXx

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